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 "id": "event/order-to-the-three-to-separate-from-their-wives",
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 "slug": "order-to-the-three-to-separate-from-their-wives",
 "label": {
  "ar": "الأمر باعتزال نساء الثلاثة",
  "en": "The order that the three keep apart from their wives"
 },
 "summary": {
  "ar": "عند مضي أربعين ليلة أتى رسول النبي كعباً بأمر أن يعتزل امرأته ولا يقربها، وأُرسل إلى صاحبيه بمثل ذلك؛ فألحقها بأهلها، وأُذن لامرأة هلال بن أمية أن تخدمه دون أن يقربها.",
  "en": "When forty nights had passed, the Prophet's messenger came to Ka'b ordering him to stay apart from his wife and not approach her, and the same was sent to his two companions. Ka'b sent his wife to her family, while Hilal ibn Umayya's wife was allowed to serve him without him approaching her."
 },
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  "people",
  "place"
 ],
 "regions": [
  "arabia"
 ],
 "periods": [
  "period/prophetic-era"
 ],
 "tags": [],
 "aliases": [],
 "themes": [],
 "span": {
  "earliest": 630.7473117175575,
  "latest": 630.8321868347425
 },
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  "start": {
   "edtf": "0630-10",
   "hijri": "0009-07",
   "calendar": "julian",
   "precision": "month",
   "status": "tradition",
   "derived": true,
   "note": "رأس الباب عند ابن إسحاق: «غزوة تبوك في رجب سنة تسع»؛ والتوقيت الدقيق للواقعة داخل الغزوة غير مذكور، فنُسب إليها تاريخ الغزوة كلها. بعد أربعين ليلة من المقاطعة (ص179).",
   "sources": [
    "source/ibn-hisham-saqqa"
   ]
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   "edtf": "0630-10",
   "hijri": "0009-07",
   "calendar": "julian",
   "precision": "month",
   "status": "tradition",
   "derived": true,
   "note": "رأس الباب عند ابن إسحاق: «غزوة تبوك في رجب سنة تسع»؛ والتوقيت الدقيق للواقعة داخل الغزوة غير مذكور، فنُسب إليها تاريخ الغزوة كلها. بعد أربعين ليلة من المقاطعة (ص179).",
   "sources": [
    "source/ibn-hisham-saqqa"
   ]
  }
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   "start": {
    "edtf": "0630-10",
    "hijri": "0009-07",
    "calendar": "julian",
    "precision": "month",
    "status": "tradition",
    "derived": true,
    "note": "رأس الباب عند ابن إسحاق: «غزوة تبوك في رجب سنة تسع»؛ والتوقيت الدقيق للواقعة داخل الغزوة غير مذكور، فنُسب إليها تاريخ الغزوة كلها. بعد أربعين ليلة من المقاطعة (ص179).",
    "sources": [
     "source/ibn-hisham-saqqa"
    ]
   }
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  "provenance": {
   "layer": "own-research",
   "source": "sira-ibn-hisham saqqa 1936, juz' 4 pp. 179",
   "generated_by": "Claude Code",
   "model": "claude-sonnet-5-5",
   "run": "ibn-hisham-batch-7b"
  },
  "sources": [
   "source/ibn-hisham-saqqa"
  ],
  "status": {
   "review": "draft",
   "completeness": 1,
   "generated_by": "Claude Sonnet 5.5; mined from Ibn Hisham juz' 4 pp. 179"
  }
 },
 "prose": {
  "ar": {
   "sections": [
    {
     "heading": "موجز",
     "markdown": "مضت أربعون ليلة من المقاطعة فجاء كعباً رسول النبي بأن يعتزل امرأته، فألحقها بأهلها حتى يقضي الله، وأُذن لامرأة هلال أن تخدمه. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "الأمر",
     "markdown": "قال كعب: حتى إذا مضت أربعون ليلة من الخمسين إذا رسول رسول الله يأتيني فقال: إن رسول الله يأمرك أن تعتزل امرأتك. فقلت: أطلّقها أم ماذا؟ قال: لا، بل اعتزلها ولا تقربها؛ وأرسل إلى صاحبيّ بمثل ذلك. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "جواب كعب",
     "markdown": "فقال لامرأته: الحقي بأهلك فكوني عندهم حتى يقضي الله في هذا الأمر ما هو قاض. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "امرأة هلال",
     "markdown": "وجاءت امرأة هلال بن أمية النبي فقالت إن هلالاً شيخ كبير ضائع لا خادم له، أفتكره أن تخدمه؟ فقال: لا، ولكن لا يقربنك؛ فقالت إنه لا حركة به إليها وإنه لا يزال يبكي منذ كان أمره، وإنها تخوفت على بصره. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "موقف كعب",
     "markdown": "فقال له بعض أهله: لو استأذنت رسول الله لامرأتك كما أذن لامرأة هلال؛ فقال إنه لن يستأذنه فيها وإنه رجل شاب لا يدري ما يقول. ثم لبثوا عشر ليال فكمل خمسون ليلة من حين نهى النبي المسلمين عن كلامهم. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "ملاحظات المصدر والتمريض",
     "markdown": "- لم يسمّ النص الرسول الذي حمل الأمر ولا زوجتي كعب وهلال.\n- يتحدث هلال بن أمية عن نفسه بصفات الشيخوخة على لسان زوجته (ص179)."
    }
   ],
   "frontmatter": {
    "id": "event/order-to-the-three-to-separate-from-their-wives",
    "lang": "ar",
    "source_lang": "ar",
    "translators": []
   }
  },
  "en": {
   "sections": [
    {
     "heading": "Summary",
     "markdown": "Forty nights of the boycott passed, then the Prophet's messenger came to Ka'b ordering him to keep apart from his wife; he sent her to her family until God would decide, while Hilal's wife was given leave to serve him. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "The order",
     "markdown": "Ka'b said: when forty of the fifty nights had passed, a messenger of the Messenger of God came to me and said: the Messenger of God orders you to keep apart from your wife. I said: divorce her or what? He said: no — keep apart from her and do not go near her; and he sent the like to my two companions. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "Ka'b's answer",
     "markdown": "He said to his wife: go to your family and stay with them until God decides this matter as He will decide. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "Hilal's wife",
     "markdown": "Hilal ibn Umayya's wife came to the Prophet and said that Hilal was an old, helpless man with no servant — would he dislike her serving him? He said: no — but he is not to come near you. She said he had no stirrings toward her and had not stopped weeping since his affair began, and she feared for his sight. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "Ka'b's position",
     "markdown": "Some of his family said to him: if only you had asked the Messenger of God's leave for your wife, as Hilal's wife was given leave. He said he would not ask his leave for her — that he was a young man who did not know what he might say. Then they endured ten more nights, completing fifty since the Prophet forbade the Muslims to speak to them. {cite:ibn-hisham-saqqa 4/179}"
    },
    {
     "heading": "Source notes and markers of doubt",
     "markdown": "- The text names neither the messenger who carried the order nor Ka'b's and Hilal's wives.\n- Hilal ibn Umayya's description of himself as aged is spoken through his wife (p. 179)."
    }
   ],
   "frontmatter": {
    "id": "event/order-to-the-three-to-separate-from-their-wives",
    "lang": "en",
    "source_lang": "ar",
    "translators": [
     "Devin (SWE-2), draft translation"
    ]
   }
  }
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  "event/boycott-of-the-three",
  "event/repentance-of-the-three-accepted",
  "event/the-three-left-behind",
  "event/kaab-offers-his-wealth-and-vows-truthfulness",
  "event/kaab-tells-the-prophet-the-truth",
  "event/expedition-to-tabuk",
  "event/ghassan-kings-letter-to-kaab",
  "event/kaab-and-abu-qatada-at-the-garden-wall"
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