{
 "id": "person/al-khansa-bint-khidham",
 "class": "person",
 "slug": "al-khansa-bint-khidham",
 "label": {
  "ar": "خنساء بنت خذام",
  "en": "al-Khansa' bint Khidham"
 },
 "summary": {
  "ar": "أنصارية من بني عمرو بن عوف، ثبت حديثها في الموطأ: زوّجها أبوها وهي كارهة فأتت النبي فردّ نكاحها، وتزوجت بعد ذلك أبا لبابة بن عبد المنذر فولدت له السائب.",
  "en": "An Ansari woman of Banu Amr ibn Awf whose hadith is established in the Muwatta': her father married her off against her wishes, she went to the Prophet and he annulled the marriage; she later married Abu Lubaba ibn Abd al-Mundhir and bore him al-Sa'ib."
 },
 "stub": false,
 "wings": [
  "people"
 ],
 "regions": [
  "arabia"
 ],
 "periods": [
  "period/prophetic-era",
  "period/rashidun"
 ],
 "tags": [],
 "aliases": [],
 "themes": [
  "women"
 ],
 "data": {
  "names": [
   {
    "kind": "full",
    "lang": "ar",
    "value": "خنساء بنت خذام بن خالد الأنصارية"
   }
  ],
  "gender": "female",
  "roles": [
   "companion"
  ],
  "traditions": [
   "sunni"
  ],
  "story_roles": [
   {
    "role": "companion",
    "status": "tradition",
    "note": "مذكور في الإصابة ترجمة رقم 11152 (ص 1858).",
    "sources": [
     "source/ibn-hajar-isaba"
    ]
   }
  ],
  "faith": [
   {
    "value": "sunni",
    "basis": "tradition",
    "note": "ذُكر في كتب الصحابة؛ يُسجَّل ضمن الإطار السني للمتحف (docs/scope.md)."
   }
  ],
  "provenance": {
   "layer": "own-research",
   "source": "الإصابة في تمييز الصحابة، ترجمة 11152، ص 1858",
   "generated_by": "Claude (maintainer session)",
   "model": "claude-sonnet-5-5",
   "run": "isaba-batch-5"
  },
  "sources": [
   "source/ibn-hajar-isaba"
  ],
  "status": {
   "review": "draft",
   "completeness": 2,
   "generated_by": "Claude Sonnet 5.5; read from al-Isaba (column-aware OCR, page 1858, entry 11152)"
  }
 },
 "prose": {
  "ar": {
   "sections": [
    {
     "heading": "موجز",
     "markdown": "[[person/al-khansa-bint-khidham|خنساء بنت خذام]] بن خالد الأنصارية من بني عمرو بن عوف، ثبت حديثها في الموطأ: أن أباها زوّجها وهي كارهة، فأتت رسول الله فردّ نكاحها {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p.1858}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "حالها وقت الزواج",
     "markdown": "يذكر ابن حجر خلافاً في الرواية: رواه مالك عن عبد الرحمن بن القاسم عن أبيه عن عبد الرحمن ومجمع ابني زيد بن حارثة، وقد خالف الثوري في السند والمتن، فقال: عن عبد الله بن يزيد بن وديعة عن خنساء أنها كانت يومئذ بكراً، كذا قال ابن عبد البر؛ وقال ابن منده إن ابن عيينة رواه فوافق مالكاً، ورواه يحيى بن سعيد مرسلاً ومتصلاً {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p.1858}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "رواية ابن إسحاق",
     "markdown": "أخرج من طريق ابن إسحاق عن حجاج بن السائب عن أبيه عن جدته خنساء أنها كانت قد تأيمت من رجل فزوجها أبوها من رجل من بني عمرو بن عوف، وأنها خطبت إلى أبي لبابة بن عبد المنذر فارتفع شأنهما إلى رسول الله، فأمر أباها أن يلحقها بهواها فتزوجت أبا لبابة، فهي والدة ولده السائب. أخرجه أحمد {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p.1859}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "روايات أخرى",
     "markdown": "وأخرج ابن منده عن أبي هريرة أن خنساء بنت خذام أنكحها أبوها رجلاً وكانت ملكت أمرها فكرهت ذلك فأتت النبي فقال: «أمرك بيدك»، فخطبها أبو لبابة فولدت له السائب {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p.1859}. وأخرج ابن سعد عن نافع بن جبير: «تأيمت خنساء بنت خذام من زوجها فزوجها أبوها فأتت النبي فقالت: يا رسول الله، إن أبي تفوّت علي فزوّجني ولم يشعرني»، قال: «لا نكاح له، انكحي من شئت»، فنكحت أبا لبابة {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p.1859}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "تنبيه",
     "markdown": "وقع في بعض الروايات اسمها «خناس» (بضم أوله مخففاً) {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p.1859}."
    }
   ],
   "frontmatter": {
    "id": "person/al-khansa-bint-khidham",
    "lang": "ar",
    "source_lang": "ar",
    "translators": []
   }
  },
  "en": {
   "sections": [
    {
     "heading": "Summary",
     "markdown": "[[person/al-khansa-bint-khidham|Khansa' bint Khidham]] ibn Khalid al-Ansariyya of Banu Amr ibn Awf; her hadith is established in the Muwatta: her father married her off against her will, so she came to the Messenger of God and he annulled her marriage {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p. 1858}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "Her state at the marriage",
     "markdown": "Ibn Hajar notes disagreement in the chain: Malik related it from Abd al-Rahman ibn al-Qasim from his father from Abd al-Rahman and Mujamma', sons of Zayd ibn Haritha — and al-Thawri diverged in chain and text, saying: from Abdullah ibn Yazid ibn Wadi'a from Khansa', that she was a virgin then, as Ibn Abd al-Barr states; Ibn Manda said Ibn Uyayna related it agreeing with Malik, and Yahya ibn Sa'id related it both mursal and connected {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p. 1858}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "Ibn Ishaq's account",
     "markdown": "Through Ibn Ishaq from Hajjaj ibn al-Sa'ib from his father from his grandmother Khansa': she had been widowed of a man, her father married her to a man of Banu Amr ibn Awf, and Abu Lubaba ibn Abd al-Mundhir then sought her; their affair rose to the Messenger of God, who bade her father let her follow her heart — she married Abu Lubaba and is the mother of his son al-Sa'ib. Ahmad recorded it {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p. 1859}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "Other accounts",
     "markdown": "Ibn Manda recorded from Abu Hurayra that Khansa' bint Khidham's father married her to a man while she was mistress of her own affair; she disliked it, came to the Prophet and he said: \"your affair is in your hand\" — Abu Lubaba then sought her and she bore him al-Sa'ib {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p. 1859}. Ibn Sa'd recorded from Nafi' ibn Jubayr: \"Khansa' bint Khidham was widowed of her husband; her father married her off and she came to the Prophet saying: Messenger of God, my father outdid me, marrying me without telling me — he said: there is no marriage for him; marry whom you wish — so she married Abu Lubaba\" {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p. 1859}."
    },
    {
     "heading": "Note",
     "markdown": "In some chains her name appears as \"Khunas\" (with a damma, lightened) {cite:ibn-hajar-isaba p. 1859}."
    }
   ],
   "frontmatter": {
    "id": "person/al-khansa-bint-khidham",
    "lang": "en",
    "source_lang": "ar",
    "translators": [
     "Devin (SWE-2), draft translation"
    ]
   }
  }
 },
 "degree": 2,
 "contemporaries": [],
 "connections": [
  {
   "to": "group/ansar",
   "type": "member_of",
   "inverse": false,
   "sources": [
    "source/ibn-hajar-isaba"
   ]
  }
 ],
 "related": [
  "person/al-rubayyi-bint-muawwidh",
  "person/asma-bint-marthad",
  "person/asma-bint-yazid",
  "person/layla-bint-al-khatim",
  "person/nusayba-bint-kab",
  "person/umm-al-ala-al-ansariyya",
  "person/umm-atiyya",
  "person/umm-mubashshir"
 ],
 "license": {
  "prose": "CC BY-SA 4.0",
  "data": "CC0 1.0"
 }
}