Subay'a bint al-Harith al-Aslamiyya

سبيعة بنت الحارث الأسلمية

632~ – 656~

Mecca → Nabil

Subay'a bint al-Harith al-Aslamiyya, wife of Sa'd ibn Khawla, who died at Mecca; she gave birth a few nights after his death, and when Abu al-Sanabil ibn Ba'kak told her that her waiting period was four months and ten days, she went to the Prophet ﷺ, who said, 'You are free; marry whom you wish'; the jurists of Medina and Kufa among the Successors transmitted her hadith, and Ibn 'Umar narrated from her the hadith on dying in Medina 1.

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At a glance

Roles
Companion
Counted among
Sunni
Era
The Prophetic Era
Region
Arabia

Life in time

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Pre-Islamic Arabia · The Prophetic Era · The Rashidun Caliphate · The Umayyad Period Contemporaries: Abd al-Rahman ibn Abra · Abd al-Rahman ibn al-Harith ibn Hisham · Abd al-Rahman ibn Khalid ibn al-Walid · Abd al-Rahman ibn Yamur al-Dili · Abd Allah ibn Abi Talha al-Ansari

In space

MeccaNabil

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WomenFamily, marriage and kinship

Place in the story

  • CompanionTradition

Sunni (transmitted)

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Overview

Subay'a bint al-Harith al-Aslamiyya, a woman Companion of Aslam, was the wife of Sa'd ibn Khawla. 2

Her hadith on the waiting period

Sa'd ibn Khawla died at Mecca, and a few nights after his death — twenty-five nights, or fewer, it is said — she gave birth. Abu al-Sanabil ibn Ba'kak told her that her term was four months and ten days, so she went to the Prophet and told him, and he said: "You are free; marry whom you wish" — or, in some versions, "When someone you approve of comes to you, marry." 2 Ibn 'Abd al-Barr says that the jurists of Medina and of Kufa among the Successors transmitted this hadith of hers. 2 The editor notes that Muslim reports something similar from Subay'a herself and that al-Bukhari gives it without a full chain. 2 Her hadith is a foundation for the waiting period of a pregnant widow.

Her report on dying in Medina

'Abd Allah ibn 'Umar narrated from her that the Prophet said: "Whoever of you is able to die in Medina, let him do so, for no one dies there but that I shall be an intercessor or a witness for him on the Day of Resurrection." The editor rates its chain good (hasan), and notes that it is also soundly reported from Ibn 'Umar by another route without mention of Subay'a. 2

The question of her identity

Al-'Uqayli claimed that the Subay'a from whom 'Abd Allah ibn 'Umar narrated is a different woman; Ibn 'Abd al-Barr says: "That is not established in my view; God knows best." 1 He follows her with Subay'a bint Habib al-Dubay'iyya, a Basran from whom Thabit al-Bunani narrated her hadith on those who love one another for God. 3

Connections

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Spouse of
Sa'd ibn Khawla
Member of
Aslam· The Companions
Related to
Iddah (waiting period)
Died in
Mecca· Nabil

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Khadija bint Khuwaylid· Sawda bint Zam'a· al-Abbas ibn Abd al-Muttalib· Aisha bint Abi Bakr· Dubaa bint Amir· Hafsa bint Umar· Ku'ayba bint Sa'd· Rufayda al-Aslamiyya

Sources

  1. al-Isti'ab fi Ma'rifat al-Ashab of Ibn 'Abd al-Barr — ed. 'Adil Murshid, Dar al-A'lam, Amman, 1st ed. 1423/2002 (one volume) , p. 912-913
  2. al-Isti'ab fi Ma'rifat al-Ashab of Ibn 'Abd al-Barr — ed. 'Adil Murshid, Dar al-A'lam, Amman, 1st ed. 1423/2002 (one volume) , p. 912
  3. al-Isti'ab fi Ma'rifat al-Ashab of Ibn 'Abd al-Barr — ed. 'Adil Murshid, Dar al-A'lam, Amman, 1st ed. 1423/2002 (one volume) , p. 913
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