Jāhilī Marriage Forms

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Four pagan marriage forms — common, istibda‘ (lending a wife for a better lineage), communal paternity assignment, and wife-swapping (al-badal) — Islam abolished all but the first.

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Overview

The four forms of marriage in the Jahiliyya: the unlawful, the istibda' marriage, the group marriage, and the badal marriage; Islam abolished them all except the first.

The story

Abu Dawud related from A'isha that marriage in the Jahiliyya was of four kinds: a marriage on the pattern of people's marriage today; the istibda' marriage — a man sending his wife to another man to conceive by him, seeking nobility of offspring; a marriage in which a group under ten men gather and lie with a woman, and when she conceives and gives birth the child is attributed to whom she indicates; and open prostitution-marriage 1.

They also had the badal marriage: a man saying to his fellow, "Give up your wife and I will give up mine — and I will give you more" 2.

In the Qur'an

Islam abolished all these forms except the first, and forbade marrying what the fathers had possessed: "Do not marry women whom your fathers married" (al-Nisa' 22) 2.

For young visitors

They had strange forms of marriage in which women and children were wronged; Islam abolished them and affirmed the known lawful marriage.

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Revealed in
Qur'an 4:22· Qur'an 4:23

People and things also explored

Waʾd (Infant Burial)· The marriage of Fatima and Ali· The Prophet's marriage to Khadija· The Prophet's marriage to Sawda bint Zam'a· Marriage to Zaynab bint Jahsh· The Choice Offered to the Prophet's Wives· Mothers of the Believers· al-Jawniyya

Sources

  1. Sunan Abi Dawud
  2. al-Raheeq al-Makhtum — Safi al-Rahman al-Mubarakpuri
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